Merry-Go-Round

Females, when you are seemingly immune to relationships because "you good." Maybe "you good" because you've been single for so long, not looking, have found a comfortable formula for getting yours, have not been emotional available. We get it, "you good." There's no pressure from your inner self, from your family and external persons to get involved in a relationship...you just know that "YOU GOOD." Then men seem to gravitate towards that -self confidence, self goodness, self I don't need a man- type vibe meaning that you're not giving them the standard male perception of female standard "pressure." They state how much they like your "Man Like" traits by not being too emotional. Then, they become insecure because you're too "Manly" emotionally because you're not trying to catch feelings and/or be in a relationship. Then men get engaged, intrigued, and maybe even "challenged." SO men give you all their attention and you give into their engagement, intrigue-ness, attention and then you become "real." The transition is likely to happen. And because the dude has consistently conveyed he liked you all this time for your dude like characteristics and then after all that you  start to show some type of emotion, then he does not like you no more after all that. He then proceeds to portray you as "those" normal females at the end of the day, after ALL that. Isn't this a merry-go-round? All I can do is laugh at this scenario my sisters.