I have limited time to spend
doing “extra-curricular” activities, which includes anything outside of work
and travel. My time is limited to spend time with myself, including family and
friends. When my down time occurs, I feel like why would I want to waste my
time dating, when I don’t know how it will turn out with this prospective
individual. I feel my time would be better spent with me resting or with my
loved ones, family and friends that is. So, as a single-Native-professional,
who-when-how do you have time to date or even meet men, in general?
I work around 50-70 hours/week,
given anytime of the week. I travel about 30% of my time. When I hang out with
friends in social setting, I’m not looking to meet men, I’m there to chill with
my family and friends. People advised me to meet men online and that’s is
something I’m just not comfortable with. Plus, checking your dating site seems
time consuming as well. My main context of this blog is, I don’t have time to
seek men to date, nor the energy. They practically have to all into my lap on a
silver platter these days. I’m trying to build my career, my financial capital,
and just be a better person than I was yesterday. Therefore, right dating seems
near to impossible for me at this point of my life.
For example, I met this person
and he’s like it seems like you’re too busy for me. And he asked if I will make
time for him. My answer was I will do my best with no guarantees, at least for
the next year of my life. *Sigh* This dating thing is so not working out for me
right now.
