Sexual Karma

It is no secret I like to talk about SEX! I work as a sexpert (sexual health educator) and I do research on sex! Not to mention I give seminars or could give seminars on how to give good oral sex to a man and what are the best sexual positions based on science! These are based on basic anatomy/physiology of males/females. I taught a sexual health class at UNLV and the curriculum I was teaching out of talked of everything from the anatomy/physiology of males/females-to-acts of sex-to-social aspects of sex. It may be weird, especially for a Navajo woman to be talking about such things because we are deemed as “shy,” and these things are not talked about in our community. But as I tell everyone, what’s the big deal, everyone has sex, it’s normal, it’s natural, and it’s a part of life.

 But, there’s a lot that comes with the act of sex as well. It comes with a lot of consequences (good/bad) and responsibility (or lack of). I read this piece and found it interesting. I would like to share it:

A woman isn't mentally or emotionally designed to have multiple sexual partners.

When a woman has sex with a guy, the act of him entering her allows his life force and energy to enter her as well. That man’s life force and energy then becomes a part of that woman’s emotional and mental character. The more of a man’s life force she takes inside of her, the more like that man she becomes. She starts to take on his ideological outlook on life, and begins to reflect the essence of who that man is. That’s why you can always tell when a woman has been with low caliber men. She’ll take on the persona and low level of energy of those men she's been with. A woman by divine design becomes a reflection of her man. Whoever is sexing her on the regular, that's the person's mindset and ideology she’ll eventually become most aligned with. And when she has multiple sex partners, she has multiple competing spiritual forces fighting inside her soul for the dominant position within her life. This duality within her ultimately leads to confusion. I know some of you ladies think you can do what men do, but you have to get on your grown woman game and think like an adult. It’s time out for thinking and acting like irresponsible teenagers. You can’t do what we do. And we can’t do what you all do. Our bodies and minds were designed differently to fulfill God’s greater purpose. This doesn't excuse men either for having loose sexual behavior. The bible makes it clear (and science corroborates) that when a man and woman join together as one: they become ONE flesh. Think about that fellas: how many women have you become one with in your lifetime? It's a scary thought, especially when you consider all the spiritual fall-out that can happen from allowing the energy of different women to join up with yours. Some of you right now can't seem to get your life on track, and you can't figure out why. You have strange pains in your body, or trouble holding down a job. You no longer sleep well at night. Your business has suddenly stagnated. Or maybe your finances never come together the way you need them to. It's because of those unbroken ties with females from your past. Some of those women you had the pleasure of banging were filled with demons: and because of that sexual act now those demons have permission to torment your life too. Sex is a very real, very serious act of sharing power. And we shouldn't treat it like kids playing with matches and gasoline.

So ladies, it’s time to stop lying to yourself about women being 'playas' like men. The only one who ends up being played in the end is YOU. And fellas: it's time to treat sex like it's more serious and precious than life or death itself. Because for many of you: it really is. Many a man is suffering the torments of hell this very moment, all because he refused to gain control over his penis when he had the chance to. Now his lust has become his eternal torment. If you don't control your penis, some woman (and the demons working through her) will destroy you THROUGH your penis. I advocate a strong healthy regimen of disciplining one's life by the teachings of Jesus Christ found in holy scripture. Not to be religious: but because IT WORKS!

The very thing many of you are running from or avoiding entirely is the very thing you need most to get your life on the right track. Stop running and give God a chance. And watch your life transform in ways you never thought possible. –Mack Major

 This Mack Major guy has so many valid points in his message. When you engage in sexual acts with another, you become united in a sacred way and exchange energy that is sacred. Therefore, I advocate for sexual responsibility. My logo for my Native youth program states, “Responsibility is Sacred.”  Also, women are the receivers and men are the givers, so us Native women have to think about these things at times. And if you don’t know that person well, he/she may have characteristics and do things that are immoral and he/she may give you that “bad” energy. In essence, there is sexual karma!! So be careful who you lay down with my friends. Sex is sacred.