Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Non-existent Dating Life

I have limited time to spend doing “extra-curricular” activities, which includes anything outside of work and travel. My time is limited to spend time with myself, including family and friends. When my down time occurs, I feel like why would I want to waste my time dating, when I don’t know how it will turn out with this prospective individual. I feel my time would be better spent with me resting or with my loved ones, family and friends that is. So, as a single-Native-professional, who-when-how do you have time to date or even meet men, in general?

I work around 50-70 hours/week, given anytime of the week. I travel about 30% of my time. When I hang out with friends in social setting, I’m not looking to meet men, I’m there to chill with my family and friends. People advised me to meet men online and that’s is something I’m just not comfortable with. Plus, checking your dating site seems time consuming as well. My main context of this blog is, I don’t have time to seek men to date, nor the energy. They practically have to all into my lap on a silver platter these days. I’m trying to build my career, my financial capital, and just be a better person than I was yesterday. Therefore, right dating seems near to impossible for me at this point of my life.


For example, I met this person and he’s like it seems like you’re too busy for me. And he asked if I will make time for him. My answer was I will do my best with no guarantees, at least for the next year of my life. *Sigh* This dating thing is so not working out for me right now. 

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