I had a deep thought last weekend. I thought “Can I just meet a
guy who wants to commit, we have a lot in common and have his shizz together?
Then, I meet a tall, 32 year old, college graduate, played college football,
and has owned/ran his own successful sports marketing firm successfully for 10
years. He has his own office and has employees. We went out for drinks last
night.
I am not going to lie, he annoyed me at times LOL. We both have
very strong personalities because we are both successful in our own right and
our personalities clashed at times, well, a lot of the time. He stated, “Are
you going to fight with me all the time?” We weren’t literally fighting but
debating and/or we kept challenging each other on our stated positions. I found
that annoying at times but intriguing at times. At one point we were talking
about the “strip club” and I had my views and he had his. I got extremely
annoyed and with attitude said, “Ok, we’re done here, I’ll pay for my own
drinks, and you have a good night.” I had every intention of leaving. I asked
the bartender to close out our tabs separately, which he did. I put my cash
down and the guy says “Ok, you’re not leaving me…we’re not going to agree on
everything and I’m paying for your tab because I’m a gentleman so put your $$
away.” LOL he shut me down quick!
That was kind bold and hot at the same time.
One thing I kinda had trouble with was when he said, “I’m a man
and whatever I say goes.” Then I said, “Where I come from, whatever I say
goes.” We both started laughing. I can tell if we continue to talk there will
probably be a bit of a “power” struggle. However, I told myself if a man can
lead us in the right direction financially, commiting-ly, relationanship-ly,
and respectfully, I have no problem letting him lead us. I’m tired of being the
leader so I can happily sit back and enjoy the process instead of always being
the stronger one or the one in a better position. I will continue to talk to
this intriguing man as a friend and see what happens….
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