Have you ever been in a relationship that has its ups and downs? But, ultimately leading to more bad times than good? I think everyone has at some point of their previous or current relationships. It’s a confusing state to be in because two prominent questions quickly jump out in my mind:
1. Because we have a history and we truly do care and love each other, do we wait out the storm with hopes it will get better and we can overcome the issues?
1a. If so, how long will that take?
-I heard a radio interview of a couple that has been married for many decades. They spoke about how in their marriage that they had many issues at times, hated each other at times, and wanted to get a divorce at times, but they never did. They worked through their issues, although it seemed impossible at times. At the end of working through their issues, they fell back in love all over again, and again, and again.
2. OR do we say we waited long enough and it is not getting any better so let’s go our separate ways?
-As I think back to my previous relationships…I am actually really happy we broke up because we were not meant to be together! It was a blessing. So with that being said, should people break up if on-going issues arise?
It’s a gamble, ironically, I live in the gambling city in the WORLD. Do you end the current relationship, only to be in a worse relationship? Or do you end the current relationship, only to be in a better relationship?
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